So, today I found out that a very good friend of mine did something that... well, they fixed it so that my child would not be able to do something my child REALLY wanted to do. I'm feeling like I was stabbed in the back. This happened a while back but I just found out about it this evening and it really upset me. My child on the other hand is such a trooper. They are disappointed and a little hurt but handling it pretty well (they have known about it for a while just didn't tell me) ... Mom on the other hand feels a lot like a Momma Bear (probably why they didn't tell me for a while.)
It just hurts me so bad that someone I considered to be such a good friend would intentionally do this to my child. I just don't understand it. Why? Grr... But, I am moving on for now... Letting go of it. DH is just as upset as I am but I just keep telling him that we are good people and we will do the right thing. Well, as close to the right thing as we can... we will move on. I'm not saying it will be easy... it won't .... but we will do our best.
It just hurts me so bad that someone I considered to be such a good friend would intentionally do this to my child. I just don't understand it. Why? Grr... But, I am moving on for now... Letting go of it. DH is just as upset as I am but I just keep telling him that we are good people and we will do the right thing. Well, as close to the right thing as we can... we will move on. I'm not saying it will be easy... it won't .... but we will do our best.
Your a bigger person than I...
ReplyDeleteI think you will surprise yourself. :o)
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